In 2015, I started teaching my oldest son to drive. I knew the stakes. Crashes are one of the biggest risks teenagers face, and the jump from permit to driving alone is a big part of why. Knowing that didn’t make the teaching any easier. I got in the passenger seat without a plan, which I suspect is how most of us do it.
There was no shortage of information. The state had its requirements. Driver’s ed covered the fundamentals. Insurance companies made it very clear this was going to be expensive. What nobody offered was the practical part: a plan for what to actually do once we were in the car.
Around the same time, I’d started riding motorcycles again. On a bike, you learn quickly that knowing the rules isn’t the same as being safe. Safe is seeing trouble early, guessing what the other driver is about to do, and making good decisions before they turn into emergencies, all of it practiced enough times that it becomes automatic.
Those are learned skills. Nobody was helping parents teach them.
I’ve spent my career in digital strategy and experience design, building tools that make complicated things easier for people to use. So I looked at it the way I’d look at any design problem:

